You could add "se" to the suffix list. Though it could cause the occasional extra hit. Such as "treats" matching "treatise" with defsuffrm on. With defsuffrm off I doubt it would hurt at all.
I have tried looking in the documentation, can you explain how does suffix proc work? I understand that the word is reduced to its stripped form based on minwordlen and suffix list. is that the word you enter as search word, or all words indexed?
What logic will help me decide what to include in the suffix list? In other words why wpuld adding "se" work?